By Vicky Sidler | Published 19 May 2026 at 12:00 GMT+2

If you have ever posted a casual video, shared a photo, or typed a completely unhinged rant on a social media platform, I have some truly exhausting news for you. You are currently acting as an unpaid, non-consenting employee for the largest artificial intelligence companies on Earth.

According to a deeply disturbing new analysis by cybersecurity company Surfshark, the social media platforms we use every day are aggressively exploiting our user-generated content to train their AI models. And worse, they are actively building digital obstacle courses to prevent you from making them stop. Out of the 10 most popular platforms analyzed, TikTok emerged as the absolute worst offender, requiring a baffling, rage-inducing 19 separate actions just to request that they stop feeding your personal data into their machine learning grinder.

As a StoryBrand Certified Guide, I am constantly warning businesses that modern consumers are incredibly paranoid, and for very good reason. The internet has devolved into a massive, non-consensual data harvesting machine.

Let’s rip apart the sheer absurdity of these impossible opt-out mazes, explore why these platforms are secretly digging through your private, unsaved drafts, and discuss how you can use undeniable humanity to protect your own brand from this catastrophic collapse of public trust.

TL;DR:

• A new Surfshark study reveals that social media platforms are aggressively exploiting user data to train AI models, purposefully hiding their "opt-out" mechanisms behind massive, complicated privacy pages.

• TikTok is the worst offender, requiring a staggering 19 steps to opt out, while actively analyzing private videos and unsaved drafts to feed their algorithm.

• Almost all platforms use a default "consent on" approach, meaning your data has likely already been permanently swallowed by the AI, and opting out only protects your future posts.

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Are You Unknowingly Training The AI That Wants To Replace You?

If you honestly believe that clicking a single toggle switch is enough to protect your intellectual property from a multi-billion dollar tech empire, you are playing right into their hands.

The Surfshark research exposes a massive, intentional design flaw built directly into the fabric of social media. These platforms do not want you to opt out. Instead of offering a simple, one-click button, companies like Facebook and Instagram require at least 8 convoluted steps. But TikTok has turned this into a sadistic digital marathon, forcing users to take 19 specific actions, navigating through endless, legally dense privacy pages and overly complicated forms just to submit a simple request.

They are intentionally weaponizing user fatigue. They know perfectly well that if they make the process tedious enough, 99% of people will simply give up halfway through the maze. It is a brilliant, completely sociopathic corporate strategy designed to maintain their limitless supply of free training data while technically maintaining the legal illusion that you have a "choice."

Why Is TikTok Desperately Digging Through Your Unsaved Drafts?

Because if you think these tech monopolies are only scraping the highly polished, public-facing content you voluntarily share, you are wildly underestimating their greed.

While platforms like Facebook and Instagram primarily stick to scraping public profiles and interactions, Luís Costa’s analysis reveals that the AI data vacuum actually extends deep into your private information. TikTok is particularly terrifying in this regard. Reports indicate that the platform isn't just analyzing the videos you post; it is actively analyzing your private videos and your completely unsaved drafts.

Let that sink in. The messy, half-finished thoughts that you recorded and explicitly decided not to publish are being quietly scooped up and fed into a global AI model. It is an incredibly invasive approach to data collection that obliterates any remaining illusion of digital privacy. They are treating your personal, digital scratchpad as their own proprietary training facility.

What Happens When A Platform Decides That "Opting Out" Is Impossible?

Because as enraging as a 19-step obstacle course is, the reality becomes much darker when you realize that on some platforms, the door is just completely locked from the outside.

If you manage to navigate the opt-out maze on X, Snapchat, or Pinterest, you are met with a crushing technical reality: all of these platforms default to "consent on." As Costa explains, this means your historical data has already been permanently swallowed by the machine. You cannot undo it; you are only protecting your future posts.

But Reddit has taken this exploitation to its ultimate, logical conclusion: they offer absolutely zero option to opt out of AI model training. None. Their vast forums are openly sold for global AI development through massive, multi-million dollar licensing contracts with Google and OpenAI. (To its credit, Discord is the singular exception in the study, explicitly stating they do not use user data for AI training). The entire social media ecosystem has been quietly transformed into a non-consensual factory floor.

How Do You Build Trust When The Entire Internet Is A Trap?

Because if the most powerful communication platforms on Earth are actively tricking people into giving up their private thoughts, your average customer is going to view you with extreme suspicion.

Your customers are exhausted, paranoid, and completely fed up with corporate manipulation. They assume that every form they fill out and every button they click is a trap designed to steal from them. If your marketing sounds like a slick, automated corporate machine, they will immediately group you in with the exact same tech monopolies that are currently digging through their unsaved drafts. This is why aggressive, undeniably human authenticity is your only viable survival strategy.

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FAQs:

1. How many steps does it take to opt out of AI training on TikTok?

According to Surfshark's analysis, TikTok is the most difficult platform to opt out of, requiring users to navigate a staggering 19 separate actions to request that their data not be used for AI training. Meta platforms (Facebook and Instagram) require 8 steps.

2. Does TikTok use private data to train its AI?

Yes. Unlike platforms that only scrape public posts, TikTok reportedly accesses highly invasive private data, actively analyzing private videos and even unsaved drafts to feed into their machine learning models.

3. What does it mean when a platform has "consent on" by default?

"Consent on" means that the moment you use the platform, you are automatically opted in to having your data used for AI training. Because this happens by default, your historical data has likely already been permanently used to train AI models, and opting out only prevents future use.

4. Can you opt out of AI training on Reddit?

No. Reddit offers absolutely no option for users to opt out of AI model training. Their vast forum discussions are openly licensed and sold to global AI developers, including Google and OpenAI.

5. How does this data harvesting affect small business marketing?

Because tech giants are actively tricking and exploiting users, modern consumers are highly paranoid and distrustful of digital marketing. Using the StoryBrand framework helps small businesses cut through this cynicism by establishing themselves as undeniably human, empathetic Guides rather than manipulative corporate machines.